What would you do if a girl rejected you but you still have feelings for her?
I have a friend, I know him since school. Reckless and profane in every sense. he never respected anyone in his life (even friends and family). Over ambitious from beginning but his carelessness behaviour never allowed him to succeeded. Years went by, things didn’t change- he still remained a nowhere person.
About 20 Months back, he fell for a girl in a sudden (love at a first sight kind), initially he thought it was just crush, days went by – his feeling became more and more stronger and out of control.
It was like all the rosy things- sleepless nights thinking about her, caring about her, remembering each everything about her, helping her without sometimes she knowing it, he dreamed his whole life with her- travelling the world, being perfect husband etc. etc…
He started to change, he became more of a steady kind of a person – working hard , he became emotional kind of a person taking care of family and friends.
At the same time, things started getting out of control, he wanted to tell her about his feelings – but deep down his heart, he knew that she was far more academically inclined than him- she had much more interesting life than him and anyways he was not at par with her. This one thought made him feel bad about him self, he was stressed out. He knew he was not perfect for her – He didn’t need her to fix himself, he just wanted to love him while he can fix himself on his own & become a better person.
Amidst that stress- he proposed her, got rejected saying that he was over caring, too serious and boring kind of a fellow.
He completely broke down, hopeless. He started crying day and night, ignored his health, inviting complications. This continued for about 2-3 months. Slowly he came back on track after support from friends. He thought things will be normal & some magic will happen. (no hopes though.)
One year down the line – he has turned out to be more stronger, respectful, friendly & grown up to be more of practical guy from overambitious looser. He loves her more now, due to change that she has brought in him. but he never show it to her.
He breaks down when he sees her or thinks about her, Its hard for him to accept that she is not with him, but his happy because she is happy with her life.
This is power of love !
If she is amazing, she wont be easy. If she is easy, she wont be amazing. Truth is – If you love her, don’t feel bad suffering for her. Stop showing her, but don’t stop loving her:):)
If he/she doesn’t like you respect his/her decision, You cant force someone to reciprocate same feelings.
Rejection is part of life, if destiny will allow, s(he) will be in your life.
Accept the rejection as part of life- learn to be happy with it – if you can not be happy with your self, how can you make other person happy?
Don’t waste your time proving your love, let him/her enjoy life. Respect your feelings. Good things and good people will find you. Love is all about living and not proving. Learn to be happy with your self.